Dear Boys.

"Finding a good woman is a bit difficult because I believe that being a good woman is more than just not being fuct up. It means that you have taken being a good person/a good friend/ a good girlfriend seriously. That you uphold being respectful and resourceful and interdependent with those you care about. And that usually means that they are in satisfying relationships... not just because "all the good ones are gone", but because the good ones know how to create their own happiness. Even if the men aren't the cinematic versions of manly perfection that romcoms have led us believe exist." 

-Me, being verbose, as usual.